Here’s a set of multiple-choice options for each question designed to assess family communication patterns, emotional connection, and openness to external support for parents. We kindly ask you to answer according to the category that applies to you. Thank you for your cooperation!
1. How often do you feel that your daily responsibilities prevent meaningful communication with your children?
- A) Always
- B) Often
- C) Sometimes
- D) Rarely
- E) Never
2. Do you believe that your current communication with your children fosters trust and understanding? Why or why not?
- A) Yes, we communicate openly and frequently.
- B) Somewhat, but I feel there is room for improvement.
- C) No, our communication is limited to fulfilling duties.
- D) Not sure, I haven’t thought about it deeply.
3. How frequently do you engage in open dialogue with your children about their thoughts and feelings?
- A) Daily
- B) A few times a week
- C) Occasionally
- D) Rarely
- E) Never
4. Do you feel that your role as a parent is primarily about fulfilling duties or building a relationship with your child?
- A) Fulfilling duties
- B) Building a relationship
- C) A mix of both
- D) Not sure
5. How do you balance fulfilling societal expectations with prioritizing the emotional needs of your child?
- A) I prioritize my child’s emotional needs over societal expectations.
- B) I try to balance both equally.
- C) I focus more on societal expectations to avoid judgment.
- D) I find it challenging to balance both.
6. In what ways do you believe emotional distance can develop between parents and children despite living in the same household?
- A) Lack of open communication
- B) Focus on fulfilling duties rather than bonding
- C) Differences in understanding or expectations
- D) All of the above
7. Have you ever considered seeking guidance from a counselor or coach to improve your parenting approach?
- A) Yes, and I have sought guidance.
- B) Yes, but I haven’t pursued it yet.
- C) No, I feel confident in my approach.
- D) No, but I might consider it in the future.
8. What goals or priorities would you like to establish for yourself as a parent?
- A) Strengthening emotional bonds with my child
- B) Supporting my child’s education and career
- C) Balancing work-life responsibilities
- D) All of the above
9. How confident are you in your ability to provide emotional support for your children?
- A) Very confident
- B) Somewhat confident
- C) Not very confident
- D) Not confident at all
10. How often do you think your child feels understood and loved by you?
- A) Always
- B) Often
- C) Sometimes
- D) Rarely
- E) Never
11. Do you encourage your child to openly express their feelings and aspirations? If so, how?
- A) Yes, through regular conversations and active listening.
- B) Yes, but only when they seem willing to talk.
- C) No, I don’t actively encourage it.
- D) Not sure how to encourage them effectively.
12. How important do you think it is for children to receive professional support, such as counseling, to articulate their emotions?
- A) Very important
- B) Somewhat important
- C) Not very important
- D) Not important at all
13. How do you ensure your child feels emotionally connected to you while managing your busy schedule?
- A) By setting aside dedicated quality time regularly
- B) By engaging in small, meaningful conversations
- C) By prioritizing family time over work or other commitments
- D) I find it difficult to ensure this.
14. Do you feel that Japanese societal norms influence how you communicate with your child? If so, in what way?
- A) Yes, they heavily influence my parenting style.
- B) Yes, but I try to balance societal expectations and personal values.
- C) No, I don’t feel influenced by societal norms.
- D) I’m not sure.
15. How do unspoken cultural rules affect your parenting style and decisions?
- A) They encourage me to prioritize harmony over individual needs.
- B) They make me focus on fulfilling societal roles.
- C) They create challenges in balancing traditions with modern parenting.
- D) All of the above